LIFESKILLS ... doing our personal best!

Defining Personal Best:

What is personal best? And who decides? The following list of lifeskills is a beginning, or working, definition. There may be others that you would want to add, some you would concentrate upon more than others depending upon your students' personal and social skill levels. By eighth grade, at least, all can be identified, explained, and modeled by the students. More importantly, they have become part of students' persona--who they are and how they act upon the world. All are readily understandable and provide parameters which improve learning on all levels--academic, social, and personal.

The purpose of the LIFESKILLS is to guide students to an understanding of which pesonal and social behaviors will enhance their success. They are easy to use. The most straight forward and easiest way to teach them is merely label examples of behavior that occur throughout the day using talk that "targets" or describes the behaviors: "John and Jim were using the LIFESKILL of cooperation so well that they have completed their project. They have created a better project than if each had done it by himself." "Emily took responsibility for herself by moving to a part of the room where she could complete her assignment."

Caring: To feel and show concern for others
Common Sense: To use good judgment
Cooperation: To work together toward a common goal or purpose
Courage: To act according to one's beliefs despite fear of adverse consequences
Curiosity: A desire to investigate and seek understanding of one's world
Effort: To do your best
Flexibility: To be willing to alter plans when necessary
Friendship: Tko make and keep a friend through mutual trust and caring
Initiative: To do something, of one's own free will, because it needs to be done
Integrity: To act according to a sense of what's right and wrong
Organization: To plan, arrange, and implement in an orderly way; to keep things orderly and ready to use
Patience: To wait calmly for someone or something
Perseverence: To keep at it
Pride: Satisfaction from doing one's personal best
Problem Solving: To create solutions to difficult situations and everyday problems
Resourcefulness: To respond to challenges and opportunities in innovative and creative ways
Responsibility: To respond when appropriate; to be accountable for one's actions
Sense of Humor: To laugh and be playful without harming others

 

Excerpted from Synergy: Transforming America's High Schools Through Integrated Thematic Instruction by Karen D. Olsen (1995) pp. 3-11 to 3-12, and The above excerpt comes from Sue Pearson's Tools for Citizenship & Life: Using the ITI Lifelong Guidelines & Lifeskills in Your Classroom (2000), pp. 9.1-9.2.

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