Information For RA's
This is a reminder that both the Counseling & Psychological Services and Health Center offer limited hours and services for students enrolled in May term classes. We are closed for the summer beginning on June 1 and will resume services in the fall beginning on August 17.
In the event of a medical emergency, please …..
* Call 911
* Or - refer to Holland Community Hospital Emergency Room
602 Michigan Avenue, Holland, MI 49423
* Non-emergent health care needs may be referred to Prime Care.
3235 N. Wellness Drive, Building A
Walk-in medical care is available 7 days/week from 10 am - 10 pm
In the event of a counseling crisis, please contact the appropriate community service (see the listing below):
For attempted suicide or immediate suicidal threat, contact Campus Safety for assistance in coordinating transportation to Holland Hospital Emergency Department. They will assist with contacting an ambulance. Please do not transport an actively suicidal student in your own vehicle.
For distressed students, or students who need on-going counseling, the student can contact Holland Hospital’s Behavioral Health at 355-3926. The student will need their insurance information when they call for an appointment.
For sexual assault or partner violence, contact Center for Women in Transition at 392-1970. This is a 24 hour crisis service and offers both medical and counseling care.
If you are uncertain about where to begin, please consult with Richard Frost, VP for Student Life or John Jobson, Associate Dean of Students.
Check out the Operation Beautiful Hope College Facebook Page:
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Are you taking time to listen?
Ten Steps to Effect Listening
- Face the speaker and maintain eye contact.
- Be attentive yet relaxed.
- Keep an open mind.
- Listen to the words and try to picture what the speaker is saying.
- Don’t interrupt and don’t impose your “solutions”.
- Wait for the speaker to pause to ask clarifying questions.
- Ask questions only to ensure understanding of something that has been said (avoiding questions that disrupt the speaker’s train of thought).
- Try to feel what the speaker is feeling.
- Gibe the speaker regular feedback, e.g.: summarize, reflect feelings, or simply say “uh huh”.
- Pay attention to what isn’t being said – to feelings, facial expressions, gestures, posture and other nonverbal cues.
Listening is a precious gift – the gift of time. It helps build relationships, solve problems, ensure understanding, resolve conflicts and improve accuracy.
More Listening Tips
Mentally screen out distractions, like background activity and noise. In addition, try not to focus on the speaker’s accent or speech mannerisms to the point where they become distractions. Finally, don’t be distracted by your own thoughts, feelings or biases.
- When listening for long stretches, focus on (and remember) key words and issues.
- When dealing with difficult people, spend more time listening than speaking.
- When in doubt about whether to listen or speak, keep listening.
Homesickness, it's universal. Psychologists call it "separation anxiety" and few people are immune. It is experienced by the kindergartner going off to school, as well as the businessperson starting a new job. Here are a few tips to help you through it now or in the future.
- Admit that you have it. Much of what you know and can rely on is back home. Homesickness is a natural response to this sense of loss.
- Talk about it with an older sibling or friend who has gone away from home. It takes strength to accept the fact that something is bothering you and to confront it.
- Bring familiar items from home to your new location. Photos, plants, even stuffed animals help to give one a sense of continuity and ease the shock of a new environment.
- Familiarize yourself with your new surroundings. Walk around. You will feel more in control if you know where buildings, classes, and services are.
- Invite people along to explore. Making friends is a big step to alleviating homesickness.
- Keep in touch with the people back home, but put a limit on telephoning. Write them reports of your activities and new experiences. Let them know you'd like to hear from them, too.
- Plan a date to go home and make arrangements. This often helps curtail impulsive returns and keeps you focused on your goals in staying.
- Examine your expectations. We'd all like to be popular, well-dressed, well-organized, well-adjusted. Well, we're not. Setting a goal of perfection is the most predictable way of creating trouble for yourself. Laugh at your mistakes. You're learning.
- Seek new opportunities. As scary as it is to see all those people, all those classes, all those buildings, all those choices, they will provide opportunities to meet people who like what you like. Take classes that you're interested in and get involved in your favorite activity, or try new ones.
- Do something. Don't wait for it to go away by itself. Buried problems often emerge later disguised as headaches, fatigue, illness, or lack of motivation.
Source: University of Wisconsin- Eau Claire Counseling Services